Tag: lifestyle

It’s been a busy few weeks with summer ending and jumping back into fall routines. This year I was intentional about planning ahead and finding time to swap in my fall decor early this year. Most years, I keep saying I’m going to get around to it. Then it’s November and I’m confused what season I should be enjoying – fall or pre-Christmas! This September, I scheduled time to deep clean the house on a Saturday and took down the summer decor. The next weekend, I brought the fall stuff out and just did the seasonal swap out. New pillows on the couch, pumpkins on the bookshelf, a new fall-scented candle!

Summer is when I want to spend every single minute outside, and fall is when I’m content to stay indoors and recharge my social battery. It’s so nice to come home from work and put on comfy sweatpants and sit on the couch with a throw blanket and comfy pillows.

I wanted to share a few of my favorite ways I turn our space into a cozy little sanctuary — because I think making home feel comforting isn’t about spending tons of money — it’s about the little details that make you sigh when you walk in the door.

1. Soft lighting + “pause” moments

One of the first things I did (and still love) was change out the overhead harsh lights. I added a small table lamp in our kitchen, near the coffee station — low bulb, warm glow. It instantly changed how I feel when I come downstairs in the morning, or when we’re winding down after dinner. I have a rule about no overhead lighting!

In our living room, we keep a soft lamp on and always have a few candles burning while we are in the room for extra lighting. read or chat.

2. Texture, layers & comfort

I’m absolutely a believer that texture + neutral tones = comfort. We’ve got a neutral foundation — soft white or light grey walls, simple furniture — and then layer in:

• A chunky knit throw draped over the couch.
• A few throw pillows in varying textures
• Rugs throughout the house

Having my comfy blankets at the ready in a basket by the couch means I’m always just one movement away from settling in.

3. Decluttered base + intentional accents

Here’s the thing I learned: having a calm space often means eliminating the clutter that distracts. We did a big sweep of our house (yes, it took time) and removed items that didn’t bring joy or serve a function. Once the base is clean and simple, any little accent becomes that much more purposeful. I went to every room in the house with a bag and was ruthless when I decluttered. Even when I brought the fall stuff out of storage, I ended up donating more than I used this year because it just felt like clutter at this point.

For example: a wooden tray on the coffee table that holds our remotes + a candle + a tiny vase. Or a wicker basket next to the sofa for throws and extra pillows. Because they have a place, they don’t feel like extra stuff. They feel like part of the why of the living room: comfort.

4. Seasonal shifts (without losing the core)

I love changing up small details with the seasons — but I don’t overhaul the whole house every time. The core stays the same (neutral + texture + comfort) and then I’ll add:

• In fall: maybe a plaid throw, a little more amber lighting, a pumpkin‑scented candle.
• In winter: more blankets, maybe faux fur pillow covers, twinkle lights.
• In spring: swap out heavier throws for lighter linens, replace one candle with a fresh floral one.

This keeps things feeling fresh, but also cozy and familiar. And it means I don’t spend tons or chase trends — I stick with what works and just layer in small updates. I use the same seasonal pillows and small decor that add that small something special each season. Really the only thing I spend money on right now are candles that help fill up the whole house with a seasonsal sent.

5. Cozy routines make the space matter

Your space only matters if you use it. So I’ve built routines around making home feel cozy:

• A Saturday morning that always starts with coffee on the couch and I write my to-do list for the day while watching a cooking show
• One thing I do each evening: tuck away the day’s items, fluff pillows, turn on the lamp, light the candle — that act signals to my brain: “we’re done for today.”
• Before bed I pick one little corner of the house and refresh it. Maybe fold the throw on the couch, maybe put away the dishes, maybe just dim the lights. It’s a small gesture, but it seals in the feeling of home.

Because no matter how beautiful the décor is, if the house doesn’t feel like a safe, rest‑place, you’ll still feel unsettled.

6. Meaningful personal touches

Finally, I fill our home with things that mean something. A framed photo of a trip we loved, a thrift find that has character, a handwritten card tucked into the storage basket. These are the details you don’t notice until they’re gone — but you feel when they’re there.

We have a shelf of our favorite books, a small tray of sentimental items on the dresser, and souvenirs from our trips on our bookshelf. These are things that you can’t buy at a store and have very little value, but bring us joy when we have them out on display.

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So that’s how I make our home cozy. It’s not perfect, it’s never finished. Some days the couch is messy with blankets, some days the laundry is visible, but the mood stays the same: restful, welcoming, ours. I love our house, and lately I love spending time at home.

If you’re thinking of making your home cozier, I’d suggest you start small: pick one aspect (lighting, texture, a little purge) and do it this week. Then sit back and enjoy that first sip of coffee or that first evening unwind — and enjoy your space!