the rest of the world was black and white but we’re in screaming color

img_4976First of all trying to take a selfie with an off the shoulder shirt is almost next to impossible! But I had to share this amazing find on the blog because it has the denim and the off the shoulder trend all in one shirt! This was one of my favorite outfits for Florida and I know it will be on repeat this summer! Continue reading “the rest of the world was black and white but we’re in screaming color”

creating rituals

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I woke up this morning and had no clue what day of the week it was. I had to look at my phone to learn that it was Monday. My life lately since coming back from vacation has been nonstop with juggling two jobs. As I mentioned before, I love this chaotic work schedule because it is what works best for me. However, lately I feel like I wake up, get some household chores done, go to work, eat dinner and immediately go to bed.

I need to find some ways to hit the pause button during my running around and find ways to enjoy the day. My to do list is constantly growing as I check one thing off, I will add two or three more things I can get done. I had a rare Saturday off a few weeks ago and after watching tv for an hour I started to get restless. I don’t actually remember the last time I sat on the couch and did nothing all day. That Saturday I got a can of paint from the basement and painted my bathroom a different color because of boredom. Back in January, I had a week off of work and purged, cleaned and painted my basement. Quite frankly, I am running out of home projects to work on in my free time!

My one day off this past week was Thursday and I woke up early to take advantage of every minute I had to do nothing. The day before I had done seven loads of laundry that needed to be put away so I found myself cleaning my parents bedroom, reorganizing their dressers as I put clothes away, and then vacuuming and dusting the entire house. Around 4pm, I received a phone call asking if I could come into work last minute. Without hesitation, I said yes and started to get dressed for the closing shift at work. I need to start practicing the word no. How many times do we find ourselves agreeing to take on more than we can handle? Or changing our plans to accommodate someone else’s plans? I have been trying to get my car washed since February, but other things keep coming up preventing me from going.

At the start of each month I make plans and tell myself that I want to start taking weekly Pure Barre classes, or start wearing my FitBit again or try to get back to reading before bed every night. But at the end of each month, that cookie recipe went untouched, my Fitbit has been dead and I didn’t go to a workout class. With this warmer weather coming (hopefully!), I hope that Spring will motivate me to start turning my plans into actions.

Here are some ways I hope to get back to my daily, weekly and monthly rituals. Let me know in the comments how you get everything done in the day while still having some “me time”.

  1. Start the day with breakfast and coffee
    When we wake up we often start our day running the minute our feet touch the ground. The days I immediately get dressed and rush out the door are often more sluggish and draining on my body. Instead of rushing out the door, I take time out of my morning to make a cup of coffee and eat breakfast every morning. Even if I eat while getting ready at my vanity, I need to start my day with a cup of coffee. It usually only takes 5 minutes out of my morning, but it allows for my body to naturally wake up and get ready to start the day.
  2. Get a planner or to do list and follow it
    Juggling two jobs and usually only having one day off a week if I am lucky leaves little time to get everything I want to get done. I started planning out my week on Sundays to see what hours I am working and what errands or activities I can do when I am not at work. I also block out time to catch up on my tv shows that I missed during the week because if I don’t I know I will never get around to it! I truly would be lost without my planner! I have found that if I look at my week ahead on Sunday nights, I can find I have more free time than I thought I did.
  3. Schedule Exercise
    While I haven’t lifted weights, been on a treadmill or been to a Pilates class in months, I have been aware of how many steps I take a day. Right now I don’t have the time, money or a friend to do a fitness class with, but I have found other ways to exercise. Take a walk, go to the mall and walk around. Do anything that gets you out of the house and just walk.
  4. Keep your living space clean
    I admit that my room looks like a disaster at the end of the week with clothes on my chair, a dozen coffee cups on every surface and an unmade bed. But by cleaning my room once or twice a week I find it now just takes me 5 minutes to put everything away. It is an easy ritual to keep up with, but I can promise it will make you feel so much more relaxed when you have a clean living space.
  5. Light a candle and find some zen before you go to bed
    I have a nightly ritual that I light a candle and dim my lights before I go to bed. Whether I eat dinner in bed, watch an episode of Netflix, or clean my room, there is something calming about having a candle lit. It has become a part of my winding down routine at night and now as soon as my head hits the pillow, I am asleep in seconds!
  6. End the day with a book
    This is something that I have been neglecting lately and want to get back into. For a month I was reading before bed and after a few chapters I would fall asleep. It was some of the best sleep I have had in years too! When you read it prevents your mind from wandering or from getting up to do something.

SPRING CLEANING (MY FAVORITE TIME OF THE YEAR)

If you haven’t realized it yet, I love to clean and have an organized home. I don’t wait until spring to start my “spring cleaning” because it is something I keep up on throughout the year. It’s something I hope to have a career in the future because I love to organize and clean rooms. It is one of the reasons why I got a part time job in retail because while most employees hate closing and cleaning the store, I actually love it! I thought I would share some of my rules for spring cleaning, organizing your home and share some previous posts on the blog you may find helpful!

You might think that your bedroom or apartment is already clean so why bother taking everything out and do a big spring cleaning. But when was the last time you saw the back of your closet or took out every shirt in your closet or vacuumed behind your dresser? With this new season, I like to reorganize, reevaluate what belongings I have and start fresh. When you declutter and clean, you make room for more positive things in your life. This is my third week cleaning my room and so far I have donated 10 garbage bags to Goodwill and thrown out countless bags of trash. I also was able to get rid of a dresser in my bedroom and an extra desk because there was nothing in them.

Spend a few days after work cleaning your room, put on Netflix and you will be amazed at what you find and how much stuff you can get rid of.

My number one cleaning rule is to tackle one area at a time. Even cleaning your bedroom is too big of a project to do correctly. Instead of doing the daunting task of your entire room, pick your closet, dresser or space where your bed is and break it up into small tasks. Take everything out, Clorox and Endust the entire space. Then decide if you really need it or if it needs to go back to where it was. My bedside table is where magazines and books pile up making it look messy and overcrowded. On Sunday nights, that is when I bring glasses down to the kitchen, put books away and do a quick wipe down.

I had two small (like childhood furniture small) dressers in my room that just took up too much space. When I took everything out of the dressers, I realized that I did not need to have dozens of t-shirts from college taking up space and put the majority of them in a bag to give to my aunt to make a college t shirt memory quilt. Each dresser had an empty drawer and work out clothes were taking over both of them. Using the Marie Kondo Method (Keep scrolling to learn how this changed my life), I was able to put all of my work out gear in own drawer. I donated the second empty dresser and now have even more room in my bedroom!img_1345(Before)

Organizing Trick #2: Baskets

I use baskets for everything that it is actually becoming a problem. If you don’t have the budget to buy baskets, I also use brown boxes to store a lot of items as well.

  • My laundry basket is actually a basket with a lid and it never looks like it is overflowing with laundry (as it usually is) but instead it blends into my bathroom better.
  • I store my slippers next to my bed in a cute basket and my closet is filled with baskets that store items as well. I
  • store extra throw blankets and throw pillows in a basket next to my bed because it is the best catch all solution for the space. In the morning I make my bed with my decorative pillows and at night I can easily throw them into a basket.
  • Since I have zero space in my tiny closet, I use a basket to store all of my purses making them easy to grab but they are all stored together.
  • My bathroom has very little storage, so I found a basket at Target that can hold toilet paper and looks decorative not sloppy!

If you have the money, I highly suggest Pottery Barn baskets!dscn3825dscn3822

Organizing Trick #3: Hooks & Hanging

I own a lot of necklaces and wear them everyday so instead of keeping them in a drawer or a jewelry box hidden away, I like to hang them on my wall. I found both of my necklace organizers at Goodwill and they are a blessing! Instead of keeping items hidden in your closet or a drawer, be creative and find ways to display your treasured belongings. I rarely wear hats, but instead of getting crushed in my closet, with a few thumbtacks I was able to hang them and make them wall decor. With my parents in the eye business, I have accumulated a lot of sunglasses over the years. I found that the best way to store them was to put them on a tray (also a Goodwill find) on my dresser so I can easily grab a pair when I am leaving the house. Sometimes the best way to organize something is by having it out on display.

Organizing Trick #4: Canisters

I think it started in college when my living situations had zero storage and I had to get creative. My biggest OCD is seeing clutter on surfaces. Like I can’t go to bed at night if I see stuff on my dresser that is not put away or if there are too many clothes on the chair in my room. With that being said, in college I only had a wardrobe, a desk and a small bedside table to store things making me find ways to get creative. I started to use pretty canisters to store things like nail polishes, makeup tools and other items.

A few months ago picked up plant canisters from Ikea but use them to hold my mascaras, brushes and a larger one to hold miscellaneous things I find in my room. At Target on clearance I picked up a cute canister that now holds all of my nail polishes and at Goodwill I found a glass canister that holds all of my lip products. As much as I like to have everything in its proper place, I also like to make things easily accessible as well. Canisters give me this nice solution where everything can be put away, but I can have them accessible on my dresser.

Organizing Trick #5: Multitasking Furniture

I have had this desk in my bedroom since we moved into the house more than 10 years ago, but I have my own office so I rarely used it as a desk. In the drawers there was clutter and dried up sharpies, the shelves had books and journals that looked cute but was all unnecessary. Ed helped me purge the desk and right now it is waiting to be dropped off at Goodwill in my hallway. The top portion of the desk is ideal for storage, so I took that part and turned it into a bookcase. I recently inherited a Pottery Barn trunk and I wanted to make the the most out of it. Instead of it taking up room in my bedroom I needed to make it useful. I decided for now to have it hold my off season pillows and soon it will hold my winter throw blankets. 

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I am really excited to start putting away my heavy throw blankets and winter bedroom decor away to make room for my spring decor.

Pick a weekend and lock yourself in your home, put on some Netflix and do some cleaning. I promise you will be so happy you did!

Start Here: The Magic of Decluttering and Organizing

Get Rid of Clutter: Declutter 

Organizing Your Dressers: The Folding Method

HAPPY FIRST DAY OF SPRING

I woke up this morning for work (late, as always) and remembered it was the first day of spring. I wanted to start distancing myself away from my black winter wardrobe and add some color since it is spring after all. I settled with a brown sweater and brown corduroy pants because it was still too chilly outside to put on pastels! I know it is going to be difficult to get in the spring spirit because this cold weather and the snow that still lingers. I tried to get away with not wearing my big black puffy coat to work today, but gave in and had to wear it! (I am so over this winter)

I thought this Monday’s post would be some tips on how to get ready for spring!

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