2017 Resolutions

68b0808df4202451366b0ff92b05b2c2.jpgHappy 2017!

I made last minute plans for New Years Eve this year and actually got out of the house! Most years I spend it asleep in bed so it was nice to get out of the house this year.Here are some photos of my NYE outfit and my resolution!

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This time last year I sat at my desk and reflected on the past year. One big thing that I wanted to change was how I lived my life. Since I started working full time June 2015, I found that my daily life was very repetitive. I got up at 7am, went to work, came home at 5, gym, netflix, dinner and bed. Every.Single.Day. I hated how I was living my life because I am not a person who likes to do the same thing every day. I knew I had to make some drastic changes in 2016, I just didn’t know how I was going to do it yet. I am not that person who is big on New Years Resolutions, because lets be honest, I love french fries, staying up late and I will never make my bed in the morning. What I like to do instead every year is make a to do list of things to do. You can see last years New Years post here. If you know me at all, you will know that I loveee to do lists. My whole room is covered in them and I get so much excitement crossing items off it.

I accomplished most of last years goals and some are still a work in progress.

  1. Take Risks
    I quit my job in September without having a new job set up. I know I should have been stressed out, but I was oddly calm because I liked this freedom I had. Over the summer I had made some extra money doing some consulting for a company, so financially I was okay to make this life change. I went on vacation for a long weekend and by the time I came home I had two part time jobs set up. Granted, these are not going to be my lifelong jobs, but for right now every day is different, I am constantly working and this type of schedule makes me happy. I wasn’t happy at my job and it was too repetitive for me, so I decided to quit and do something different. In the next few months I will have to take another risk, but this time I know I will land on my own two feet.
  2. Meet New People
    One of the hardest parts about post life was creating a social life. I took a job in retail because I like working with people and I need to hang out with younger people! I am kind of an anti social person, so I am still working on meeting new people. But I have spent more time and energy spending time with my college friends. With group texts, meeting for lunch and spontaneous adventures I am working on maintaining the friendships I have.
  3. Travel
    I did a lot of traveling this year and it is a goal I hope to continue working on this year. You can read about my traveling in 2016 here. I don’t have a lot of money, but traveling is something I save up for so I can go on trips far and near.
  4. Work on House Projects
    This year has been a year of demolition and construction in my house. From little tiny projects like new trim to new flooring, our house is coming together! This year I painted and redesigned my office, put up new blinds on my floor, new floors on the first floor, new ceilings, and repainted almost every room in our house! I will say after all of this work, my next apartment will be completely finished and will not need any more work to be done!

Now that I have completed these items off of my to do list, there is much to do in 2017!

2017 Goals

  1. Read More Books
    In college I did was read for class and during the summer months my favorite thing to do is sit in a beach chair and read on the beach. For Christmas I got a lot of books for Christmas and now my bookshelf is overflowing with books to read. Hopefully this year I will dedicate more time to read in bed before I go to sleep.
  2. Eat Healthy
    Since I graduated from college I have gained a good amount of weight. This past summer it was difficult to fit into bathing suits and hard to accept I was no longer a size small! Over the last few months I have been watching what I put into my body and my diet consists of portion control. Changing the way I eat (No dairy, no more bags of chips. etc) I have lost 10 pounds so far and I hope to keep living a healthy lifestyle in 2017!
  3. Exercise at Home
    In college I would go to the gym a few nights a week and get my reading done while on the elliptical. It was hard to stay awake at night or not get sucked into a Netflix episode when I had so much work to do. This time last year I was going to the gym everyday for a few hours. Now I am out of breath when I walk up a flight of stairs! In September I had to cancel my gym membership for financial reasons and I miss the endorphins I would get from going! I still get my Tone It Up emails reminding me to work out, but come up with silly excuses not to work out. Hopefully this year I can continue to save the money and work out more in my bedroom.
  4. Quit My Job(s)
    I had a long talk with my dad and that for months I have been waiting for everything in my life to happen at the right time. I have been waiting for the perfect job to come along, the right salary, the right apartment, etc. I think this year I need to take a leap of faith and just jump into my next adventure. I have boxes in my basement labeled “Rosie’s Future Apartment” all ready to be moved out. I took a risk this past year and landed on my two feet… I am hoping the same luck continues in 2017!

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14729288_10154644277493149_5963420652412623641_n.jpgI have never been a big fan of New Years Eve and have spent the last few years in bed watching When Harry Met Sally with a glass (bottle) of wine. The last few weeks I have been busy at work, working both jobs seven days a week, spending all of my free time shopping for presents and then staying up late to wrap. Christmas was a very somber day in my house. It was just my parents and I, and without little kids around the house the day loses its magic. I had a few days off for my birthday and Christmas, and for the first time in months I was able to sit and do nothing. My body would not let me sleep and I was a little restless lounging around on the couch all day. I am used to doing laundry, reorganizing drawers or purging my closet on a day off, but I forced myself to lay on the couch and watch Gilmore Girls for hours. It was harder to do than it sounds, I promise!!

A few days of doing nothing made me appreciate doing nothing. I need to schedule doing more of it during the months ahead. With my anxiety and mental health, I work best when my schedule is constantly booked and I have a million things to do. But in 2017 I need to have more lazy days to sit around with dirty hair in a sloppy bun and fun pajamas. During my hours of Netflix binge watching, I had time to reflect on the past year. A lot of these memories are hard to relive, but I am happy they are in the past and a new year is beginning.

2016 was the year of postponing my own happiness. 2015 was a year of accomplishments and chapters in my life ending. 2016 had so much to offer, but instead, I put a pause on my life to take care of others. I do not regret the decisions I made, but I hope in the next year I can start to make some decisions of my own. For months I kept telling myself that I will start working on my career later, or start to build friendships when I had more time, or start to date again when I was in a better mental state. I went through so much pain, worry and difficult times this past year. But now that I can sit around with my family in our newly renovated house, and I know that everyone is happy and where they need to be. Of course when I write this my dad is recovering from surgery from earlier in the week. I hope that 2016 brings good health to my family, because I do not think I can go to a hospital one more time! I have also learned that if I can make it through this year, I can make it through anything. I don’t have a lot of career victories or life accomplishments this year. I just quit my job and got a part time job in retail while working at a college office a few days a week to pay the bills. I went to college hoping to get a degree in something that will let me help people. But now in the real world I realize that financially I am not able to get a job in social services and still be able to pay rent. Hopefully this will be the year that I move out of my parents house and unpack boxes labeled “future apartment”.

The one good thing about a new year, is that it gives us this time to reflect on the past year, see what we want to change and find ways to improve our life. Cheers to 2016!

Wishing everyone a Happy New Year! I started this blog over a year ago because I was bored and needed a hobby. My parents still don’t understand how this thing works!! Thank you for taking the time to read my blog and like my photos on social media. I hope my life adventures have encouraged you to go to Target because you saw something I found or you like an outfit I posted. I know that we are all on similar paths and journeys, and I hope my posts give you some inspiration. Love ya lots!

xoxo,

Rosie

 

Christmas pajamas perfect for a lazy Sunday morning

I am obsessed with pajamas! I have drawers filled with them! I get a little carried away during Christmas with my pajamas, but you can never have too many!! This year I purged a few older pajamas to make room for new ones. Check the details below to see my favorite pajamas!I have always been 
Christmas pajamas perfect for a lazy Sunday morning

P J Salvage henley top
nordstrom.com

Old navy top
oldnavy.gap.com

Victoria s Secret flannel pj
$34 – victoriassecret.com

J.Crew j crew socks
$22 – jcrew.com

Old Navy thermal legging
oldnavy.gap.com

J.Crew cotton socks
factory.jcrew.com

Square frame glasses
$37 – scp.co.uk

Anthropologie monogram mug
anthropologie.com

Holiday Gift Guide For Mom

I think we can all agree that shopping for our moms is no easy task! What she really needs is a vacation and a day on the couch binge watching her favorite show. Unfortunately, I cannot give our mothers their dream day off! But I can give you a gift guide of things our moms need and want for Christmas!

gift guide for mom

 

 

1.Pajamas Don’t underestimate the gift of pajamas! I go to TJ Maxx and pick up new pajamas for my mom every year. It is something that moms may not think they need, but wearing dads shirt to bed and old yoga pants can be replaced with a cozy, matching set of Ralph Lauren pajamas!

2.Socks Funny socks, fuzzy socks, boring socks, dollar bin from Target socks… doesn’t matter! But I guarantee that those socks will be on her feet by the end of the day!

3.Throw Blanket Okay, so this may be a present for myself as well! But whenever we are lounging on the couch I feel like we are always fighting over blankets. We will have a million blankets in a basket, but we always fight over the same one! Now mom can have her *own* blanket (until she is not looking!).

4. Williams Sonoma They always have great kitchen towels, soap sets, oven mitts, and other kitchen items that your mom would love in her kitchen. Did I mention they offer free gift wrapping?!? I always have a pineapple pattern present under the tree for mom!

5.Luxury Face Products My mom is always making excuses on not buying an expensive face cream because she can buy other more useful things for the family instead. Try to get your mom something she has been looking at, but couldn’t justify buying herself. My mom is a big fan of the Lancome products so I grab a gift set from Macy’s every year to give her.

6.Perfume I buy my mom a scent for the year for Christmas. I am a big fan of Calvin Klein perfume, but the Lancome La Vie Est Belle scent is my current favorite. Shopping Trick: Don’t buy the gift set, but just get the perfume alone instead. When it is in the gift set, the perfume is small and you pay for the packaging. TJ Maxx and Marshalls have perfumes that doesn’t have the bells and whistles making it more affordable.

7.Dry Shampoo My mom discovered the magic of dry shampoo after using mine one day.  And now I always find it goes missing! If there is something that your mom *always* borrows, get one just for her!

8. Purse I recently got my mom a wallet for her birthday in November, and what she does not know is that a matching purse is on the way! My mom is someone who will use a purse until it falls apart! Before leaving for one of her girls getaway weekend, my mom texted me asking if she could raid my closet for a suitcase and purse. It’s something she needs, but moms don’t often splurge on themselves!

9. Bite Beauty I recently received some free lipsticks from Bite Beauty to review from Influenster and Sephora. Since the day they have arrived, my mom has been trying to take one that I may not like that much. Instead of hiding my lipsticks, I thought she could get her own! Sephora has a great Bite Beauty lip kit with a variety of colors to try.

*click the products below the collage for item details*

 

Let me know what you are getting your mom in the comments below! I could use some more gift ideas 🙂

Dear Santa….

Sharing some items on my Christmas wish list!
Some items have already been purchased because I couldn’t wait until Santa delivered them under the tree on Christmas lol

Dear Santa

 

1.Christmas Pajamas I am a really big fan of pajamas, especially Christmas ones! I purchased these from Old Navy on Black Friday because they are so cute! With my birthday rewards from Victoria’s Secret, I purchased these because I didn’t have a set of traditional plaid Christmas pajamas. And any pajama lover will say they are a must have! They came with free slippers, so I could justify buying another pair !

2.Socks Getting older I realize that buying the things we need in life are not that much fun to buy and they cost money we may not have ourselves. Every year I get a new pack of socks in bulk from Costco because I like to start every year with a fresh pack. But these camp socks from J. Crew are so cozy and cute! I get way too excited for new socks every year, but hey it’s $10 I didn’t have to spend!

3.Boots My Calvin Klein black riding boots are from Sophomore year in college and I still love them even though they are falling apart. When it rains, my feet get soaking wet and the heel is cracking making an annoying sound when I walk. After hours of searching online, reading online reviews and stalking people on Instagram, I decided to splurge and buy the Tory Burch boots on Cyber Monday. They were so sooo cheap that I couldn’t let this deal go unused!

4.Coat I have been drooling over this coat for months! My parents bought it for me this week to put it under the tree and with my employee discount it was a bargain! I see everyone on Instagram wearing it and when I tried it on I knew it was coming home with me. I sized down to get a more fitted look because the coat is boxy. I got a 00 for reference.

5.Coffee Cup If you want to get me a realllly cheap gift that I will love forever, it would be a coffee cup. My current coffee cup collection is really growing and taking over our kitchen at the moment. There are new Christmas coffee cups from Target that are adorable, but I also get them at TJ Maxx or HomeGoods. If you want a cute gift for a friend, get a coffee cup and a box of K Cups! It is something they will actually use and everyone needs coffee!

6.Jewelry Lately I have been wearing more jewelry and not just because it is part of my dress code! I love anything Kate Spade, but I also have my eye on this piece from Tiffany. I saw it in the recent Bridget Jones Diary movie and just stared at it the entire movie wanting it! If you have a small budget but want to get something nice for a friend, a cute bracelet or earrings from Kate Spade are a great gift under $30 but it is nice enough without having to get them much more.

7.Swell Water Bottle I gave them to my parents as gifts, but I realllly want my own! I like to get friends practical gifts they will actually use, and it is cute enough that people will actually carry it around. A lot of my friends now are on a health kick, so this is a great gift for them!

8.Pom Pom Hat It will only be in style this year, but it is so cute that I want my own! I love the white one with the brown fake fur on the pom. I mean, it would be a perfect match to my coat! If you want to get a friend a cozy gift, you can get them a pom pom hat and a scarf set. Something practical and will be used all winter long.

9. Sephora I find that there is a lot of makeup that I want, but can’t justify spending the money on myself. Sephora has great makeup kits that fit every budget this time of year that are a WOW present. If you get a girl friend anything from Sephora, she will love you forever!

10.Cozy Knit Sweater It is a preppy classic that any preppy girl will love. It’s great for lounging Sunday mornings on the couch and at the office. J. Crew always sells them, but I found a cheaper alternative at Old Navy and I hope Santa gives me one for Christmas.

11. Flannel Sheets Again, there are a lot of things we need in life, but we may not want to spend the money on ourselves. On my wish list this year are Flannel Sheets from Martha Stewart at Macy’s. If you know someone who recently got their own apartment, flannel sheets may not be something they have money for, but in the winter they are a must have. They do make getting out of bed in the winter a bit more difficult!

 

Christmas Trees and Red Cups

I was driving around doing errands on my day off work and drove past the nursery where we get our Christmas tree every year. I decided to pull over and walk through the forest of trees. I have a horrible feeling that with my work schedules I am going to miss picking out a tree with the family this year. I can’t believe it’s already December 1st!! There is still so much I want to do this holiday season and I feel like I’m running out of time

It’s hard to think about Christmas with this warm weather lately. Hopefully we get some snow soon!!